Thursday, March 22, 2007
I have planned a 21st Birthday Bash.
Hitting 21 is a huge thing to most people.
For me is just another year.
But the excuse to have something major.
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Been planning for a month
Design of the card
sending out of invitations
Food tasting for catering
Token of appreciation for my Guests
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I have a budget to meet.
I have a certain amount of friends that i can invite
I would love to invite everyone i know
Can i?
My parents are financing this.
I have to follow suit.
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So i have made my guest list and sent out the invitation.
Some of my non invited friends are aware of the party but are so understanding
Some can be so thick skinned.
Expecting to be invited coz I AM YOUR FRIEND
Now there's terms to it if the person is invited
I am TOLD to do things for MY PARTY?
You SHOULD invite this person.
What's this? nobility?
Have you given a thought being told to invite someone who i already decided not to. how happy can i get knowing the person would be coming? Know thing that this person is not really welcomed by the rest of my guest as well. Who is to entertain this person? How exciting and happy can the person be being invited to my party in the end? Every other outings we had as a group is already been excluded. what difference does it makes if i dont invite the person for my party already? is like just another event that is not invited AGAIN. Go reflect and think why is this happening to oneself? Do you really deserve the invitation.
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I'm frustrated
I'm upset
I'm shocked
To know that you would even think of asking me to do so.
Is not about "we were once close"
Is about situation right now should i invite or is the person deserving.
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Weeks ago i have already made my stand not to invite this person
My decision stays.
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Birthday Bash is suppose to be happy
the excitement of the day nearing
the preparations
all the planning falling together.
not unhappy stuff like that.
Vanessa Monteiro Let her Opinion Out At... 4:45 PM
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